Tributes to Uncle Remi

Hmnn, Uncle Remi,

It is with a very heavy heart that I try to put words to this grief. I never imagined I would be writing something like this. After we spoke on Thursday, my heart was full of peace and thanksgiving. I truly believed we had overcome the battle. So when I received the news of your passing on Saturday, it was a shock I still struggle to understand.

My mind was flooded with questions—why now, why you? How could someone so faithful, so devoted to God, be taken so suddenly? You even had plans to go to camp after your discharge for the annual RCCG convention, a programme you faithfully attended year after year. It felt unfair, and for a moment, I questioned everything. But even in this pain, I hold on to one truth: God makes no mistakes. His wisdom is perfect, even when our hearts cannot make sense of it.

You were so much more than a brother-in-law to me, Uncle Remi. You were my small daddy, as I always called you—a steady source of quiet strength and guidance. Your home was my second home, a place where joy was nurtured and love was freely shared with anyone who walked through the door. Thank you for the kindness you showed me, for the respect you always gave me, and for welcoming me completely as family. The way you loved my sister and devoted yourself to your children spoke louder than words ever could. For all of this, and so much more, my gratitude runs deep.

You were a man of few words—quiet, but deep. You carried yourself with a calm dignity and gave yourself wholeheartedly to your family as a devoted husband, a loving father, a dependable brother, and a faithful son. You made quiet sacrifices to ensure your family never lacked, and you taught your children discipline, honesty, and responsibility through the way you lived. Your gentle strength and steady presence revealed the true depth of your character.

I take comfort in knowing that in your later years, when God called you to serve, you answered fully. You served Him with your whole heart and remained faithful until your last days. Through life’s challenges, your faith remained steadfast, and you used the strength God gave you to lift and encourage others. That faith and quiet devotion will continue to live on in your children and in the hearts of all of us who were blessed to have known you. Your example stays with us, your influence stays with us, and your legacy rests securely in God.

Sleep well, Uncle Remi. You will be sorely missed.

May God grant you perfect rest, keep you in His peace, and hold you close until we meet again.

Your sister-in-love,

Folake Franklyn-Ayeni